I always become a little perturbed inside when people are quick to become defensive and/or hostile for no good reason. I remember my 18th birthday, mid-December 2009, when my mom gifted me a copy of Richard Dawkin’s newest book The Greatest Show On Earth: The Evidence For Evolution. It’s a sort of primer that sets out all of the evidence for biological evolution, and even clears up some people’s misconceptions on scientific theory and fallibility. It’s a thoughtful and informative text especially for those who are not well-versed in scientific reasoning.
I digress though. For my birthday, I was with my mom, my sister, and my brother-in-law. I was enjoying myself, at least, until a point where the mood shifted a bit: As I uncovered my newly-gifted book from its wrapping paper, I was met with an extremely cynical and disconcerting look from my sister. She immediately, quite forcefully exclaimed, “Seriously, Danny? Seriously?”
To which my mom added, “You know, the LDS church doesn’t speak out against evolution. Not at all.”
Across the table, my brother-in-law nodded in agreement. “Nope, they don’t.”
I hadn’t said anything this entire time. Rather, I was sitting there in disbelief, shocked, and slightly offended by this exchange that just occurred in front of me. It had only been a few seconds, and already my family appeared to be up in arms, speaking defensively about the church, and getting bothered by something that really shouldn’t have bothered them at all. Based on this, I can only assume they believed the book to be deceptive anti-Mormon fuel, granted for me to keep in my arsenal of evil, misguided, confused atheist literature. My family was aware of my negative feelings toward the church, so they felt compelled to immediately tell me how the LDS church really isn’t like that, and I’m looking in the wrong places to get information.
Except… it was merely a science book. And those weren’t my intentions at all.
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